The Perfect Match

Once in a while I listen to people saying that “you haven’t found the one yet,  but when you do everything will seem easy and right”.

Dear people,  guess what?! I don’t believe that even for one second… There is no perfect match… There are compromise, patience, understanding and respect, all shown in the efforts we are putting in a relationship. We do not get to have a decent relationship unless we work for it… Nobody will support you and love you just because you are the perfect match, simply because of the basic principle: you have to give in order to receive.

I do agree that your feelings towards a person are very important and they are the “engine”  of a relationship but without the other “parts” the car wouldn’t work.

A relationship is more complex and it cannot be compared to a puzzle where all the pieces are a perfect match….

I Love Your Dirty Socks

Another day, another pair of dirty socks added to the pile under our bed. I love that…

It means you are still here, it means we are still together. I can still admire you while you are sleeping. I can still put all my love and appreciation into a kiss on your forehead. I can still hug you and surrender in your arms. I can still smile at you with all my heart. I can still cook and watch you enjoying your favourite dish. I can still dance with you in the silence. I can still comfort you after a bad day. I can still get goosebumps from your touch.

I can still be happy and enjoy our life together…