Once in a while I listen to people saying that “you haven’t found the one yet, but when you do everything will seem easy and right”.
Dear people, guess what?! I don’t believe that even for one second… There is no perfect match… There are compromise, patience, understanding and respect, all shown in the efforts we are putting in a relationship. We do not get to have a decent relationship unless we work for it… Nobody will support you and love you just because you are the perfect match, simply because of the basic principle: you have to give in order to receive.
I do agree that your feelings towards a person are very important and they are the “engine” of a relationship but without the other “parts” the car wouldn’t work.
A relationship is more complex and it cannot be compared to a puzzle where all the pieces are a perfect match….
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